Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Suspicions of Cheating

Do you have that awful feeling that your spouse is cheating? You may have that feeling that he's not really working late, doesn't really have to go to a meeting, or maybe he's a little too close to one of his co-workers.

Or maybe your outgoing, friendly wife is being a little more than outgoing and friendly with someone else.

Have you heard the motto of Match.com's advertisements? "It's okay to look", they say. Well, if you think your spouse is cheating, they may be doing a lot more than just looking.

Here are common tell-tell signs that your husband or wife is cheating:
-Change in personality or behavior

-Change in routine

-Pays more attention to appearance and grooming

-Acts differently towards you

-Has to get out of the house alone more often

-Has a need for more privacy

-Gets irritated if you ask too many questions or invade their space

There are also signs that your spouse is using the internet to cheat:

-Spends a lot of time online

-Erases history -Gets offline or closes the browser when you walk in the room

-They have their own log on that's password protected

-They have their own personal computer or laptop that you don't have access to

-They spend a lot of time chatting, but say it's with just friends

If your spouse is using the internet to cheat, you can use the internet to catch them cheating.

Because this is an increasing problem sadly, there are online investigators that can tell you if your spouse is being faithful or if they are cheating on you.

Do you want to know if your spouse has signed up for any of those dating sites online? Is your spouse one of those people that places an ad as a married person looking for a discreet relationship on the side?

By giving your spouse's email to an online investigator they will run that email through their database of thousands of dating websites to see if that email is registered with any of them.

If so, it's time to have a serious talk with your spouse. And they can't lie their way out of it and say it's all in your head, because you will have the proof.

Ed Opperman , president of Opperman Investigations Inc is an expert in Internet Infidelity Investigations and Computer and Cell Phone Forensics. If you need help with an infidelity investigation visit http://www.emailrevealer.com

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